Rev 19:7
Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure"-- for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints.
I have a very close friend with whom I enjoy an uncommon loyalty. I love spending time with him because every time I do he encourages me. I regularly tell him how much I appreciate his character and admire his wisdom. I want to be like him is so many ways.
But I recently told him, “I can’t stand being around your wife! I don’t know why you love her. She is ugly, selfish, lazy, even unfaithful at times. I love you, but I refuse to meet with you if she is in the room. Can’t we get together without having her around?”
In reality, I would NEVER say such things about my friend’s wife. But today there are many who have this kind of attitude toward Christ and His bride—the Church. Today It has become cool to bash the church. Spirituality is hot; church is not. Community is cool; but church is lame. Some might lead you to believe that the church is actually detrimental to a growing relationship with Christ. To hear some tell it, you must leave the church in order to be the church. Do you claim to love Christ but are really disgusted with His church?
It is no secret that the church that Jesus died to redeem has its imperfections. There is no such thing as a perfect church. Someone has rightly said, “If you find a perfect church, don’t join it. You will mess it up.”
But you cannot claim to love Christ while refusing to love his bride, the church. To love Jesus is to love his bride. To accept Jesus is to accept the church. You cannot receive Jesus and reject his church. He loves it and if you love Him you will love what he loves. You cannot practice a churchless Christianity.
If you have become disgruntled, suspicious, wounded, or disconnected with the church you should reengage. Walking with Christ demands walking together with others who walk with Him. You need the friendship, encouragement, and accountability of a community of believers. And other believers need you.
Don’t let a bad experience in your past keep you from seeing the beauty of the bride of Christ. Find a local church where the Bible is preached and fellowship is a priority for God’s people then commit yourself them. If you are connected to a local church demonstrate uncommon loyalty to Jesus by loving his bride.